
Y’all we have got to talk about something that frankly I’m tired of seeing. People need to stop gatekeeping the enjoyment and knowledge of distilled spirits. Just stop it. Women in particular are made to feel unwelcome far too frequently.
I am by no means an expert on distilling or spirits but I do know a lot and I am always eager to learn more. Now, I have had exceptional experiences with the distilling community here in Colorado while doing the Spirits Trail, but not all experiences are positive with the extended community of enthusiasts.

What brought this on was a specific event I attended. I am not new to being one of only a few women at whiskey events. To begin, I received some chuckles and eye rolls when I spoke up and asked questions. It was an interesting topic. I like to learn new things. I’m going to ask questions. Let people be inquisitive. Now the gentlemen running this event happily answered my questions and was very sweet and treated me with respect. His audience just seemed annoyed, not all of them but some of them sure did.
After the formal portion of the event we were able to mingle and talk to each other. Usually this is my favorite part- I enjoy talking to other enthusiasts and hearing their stories and experiences. I met some really nice men who were not only fun to talk to but interesting as well. As the night progressed I tried to talk with a few of the gentlemen that had planted themselves in the center of the event space and were talking about whiskey and moonshine. Fascinating conversation- and as I started to speak up and try to participate I got the impression I was not welcome. How so? You might ask, well one of the gentlemen, one of the ones who didn’t seem to like my questions during the event, actually stood up and blocked me from the conversation. The other men in the group just continued their conversation but everyone could see what was being done. The message was received loud and clear, “you aren’t welcome here little lady”, “this is a boys club”.
This is not the first time something like this has happened. I have been “well, actually”ed more times than I can count. Men seem to think that if they know anything about a topic women are interested in then they need to prove they know more. I’ve never been so insecure in my knowledge that I get upset when someone teaches me something new. But teaching me something new and condescending to me are very very different things. I run into this issue in bars and at events all of the time. My friends who work in the industry say the same thing. They regularly have people “educating them” about the spirits they are serving. These women work at specialty locations, they know their spirits, they know their recipes. They. Know. Their. Shit.



I am actually happy to see that these events are beginning to attract more and more women. I am thrilled to see that women are distilling, Montaya Distillery in Crested Butte is co-founded by Karen Hoskin. Marble Distilling also has a female head distiller and co owner Connie Baker. Craft Cocktail Inc. is a woman-owned business here in Colorado Springs. Montana Hosfall is an advocate for inclusivity in the whiskey community. She hosts women’s classes on whiskey, how to order it, how to drink it, how to talk about it. Her goal is to make women feel welcome at the bar and comfortable in their knowledge. All of these women are paving the way for a more inclusive community. We need to raise up those who want to make sure this community is inclusive. So to my favorite inclusive and wonderful readers, get out and enjoy some spirits and don’t let anyone hinder your desire to learn and contribute to this community!
Cheers!





























